When I was a younger I was always worrying and thinking of what other said, I think at that age you do. As I grew I noticed that not everything needed a reaction, that by a certain age I matured quicker than most of my friends back then. I think how you grow up and who you grow up around has a lot to do with how you think of life. I remember I use to sit and watch my ‘friends’ argue over such silly things I was just sitting and watching and couldn’t believe how immature it was.
I always remember when I was about 14 maybe abit younger, a guy come up to me and said “ you act older than what you are” I will never forget that for some reason, I remember at the time I was upset and hated that he must of thought that off me. Then I soon I realized I didn’t care, in fact I just proved it even more to everyone.
What other people say about me is their problem, not mine
Don’t take other people’s negativity personally. Most negative people behave negatively not just to you, but to everyone they interact with. What they say and do is a projection of their own reality. Truth is they are probably starting this because they are having problems themselves!
I am free to be me Can you remember who you were before the world told you who you should be? Before you had to think who you’re going to be today? Pleasure is found when you stop comparing yourself to everyone else and what they want. Don’t live for anyone but yourself and maybe someone who you want to be with.
Every experience is just another important lesson
Disappointments and failure are two of the surest stepping-stones to success. So don’t let a hard lesson harden your heart. When things go wrong, learn what you can and then push the tragedies and mistakes aside. I always say I’ve learnt a lesson from everyone I have met and spent time with, in order to grow we must fail and learn and stand up on are feet again.
Who I spend quality time with matters Surround yourself with people who lift you higher those who see the great potential in you, even when you don’t see it in yourself, you are said to become more like the people who you spend time with so be very careful of who you invest your time in. Some people are just not worthy to see all of you bare. The angel was once a devil.